Wednesday, August 25, 2010

sexy time

Well I am on a blogging road rage here. I am just documenting short thoughts as they come. With my wealthy experience with mean I have learned that no guy between the ages of 18-28 wants anything from you but SEX. SEX, SEX, SEX. Of course sex is great, fun, amazing, orgasmic, blah blah blah. Though some seem to think you can base a whole relationship on this tasty, succulent act of physical sometimes emotional love. I mean if you send naked pictures any guy and every guy is totally down... down to talk, down to text, down to fuck and then forget you totally exist. And really, personally I should've known better. And let me just say that it's not all the men, women are of course just like this but since my experience is with men I shall talk about them. In these situations girls know what they can get if they show a little skin... whether it's a one night stand or a sexy, revealing picture in return. I know that people with intentions to start a relationship are out there. And I know that people who don't want to start a relationship are focused on only sex. I guess what bothers me is that I, or some people have to use sex to get a guys attention and maybe that means I have a shitty personality ( so much that people would rather see my tits than actually have a conversation with me). When I say conversation I am talking about a 2 way discussion, not a "hi" and "bye" convo. Also if you actually want to make a person feel like you want to get to know them then you should probably ask them questions when you talk to them like " what's your favorite animal" or "what are your plans for tonight." Maybe I am being a bit pretentious here, and YES I bring this discontent upon myself but I have experienced both. That both being happiness when someone truly tries to get to know me and being upset when people would rather grovel over my body. There are decent guys out there, I see them and know them but I am so turned of by the possibility of everything being about sex that I am taking some days off from trying. In this case maybe I try too hard.

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